Attending a live performance is so exciting, and whether it’s a rock concert, a student recital, or a professional orchestra, each setting has its own vibe. Knowing what to expect can help you feel comfortable and make the experience even more enjoyable, especially if you’ve never been to a live performance before! From how to dress to when to clap, here’s your guide to making every event memorable. Let’s dive into what makes each type of performance unique.
1. Rock Concerts: Casual, Fun, and Full of Energy
What to Wear: Rock concerts are usually casual affairs, so wear whatever makes you feel like yourself! Jeans, T-shirts, or a fun outfit that shows off your personal style are all fair game. As long as you’re comfortable and ready to move to the music, you’re set.
When to Arrive: Plan to get there about 15–30 minutes early to find parking, grab a drink or a snack, and find your spot. This way, you won’t miss any part of the show—even the opener can be a hidden gem you’ll want to catch.
Noise-Making Devices: It’s loud, but it’s still best to silence your phone. Texting or taking photos (if allowed) is totally fine, just be mindful not to block anyone’s view. Calls, though, can be a bit of a buzzkill, so save those for after the show.
When to Clap: At a rock concert, cheering and clapping are part of the experience! Clap, cheer, sing along, and dance if the vibe feels right. Just keep an eye on those around you to make sure everyone’s having a great time.
With Kids in Tow: Rock concerts can be very loud, so for little ones, consider noise-canceling headphones. Seats farther from the speakers can help, too. These events might be a little intense for infants, but older kids will likely love the excitement!
2. Student Performances: Celebrating Hard Work and New Skills
What to Wear Student recitals or school concerts are moments to shine for young performers, so it’s respectful to dress business casual. Think slacks and a nice top, or something you might wear to a family gathering—comfortable but presentable.
When to Arrive: Arrive 15–20 minutes early to get settled. Many student events won’t allow entry once the performance starts, so it’s best to plan ahead.
Noise-Making Devices: Turn off or silence all devices. Small spaces amplify even the quietest sounds, so even a gentle buzz can be distracting to the performers and others in the audience. If you bring little ones, consider a quiet activity to keep them entertained.
When to Clap: Typically, it’s best to wait until the end of each piece to clap. Look for cues from the conductor if you’re unsure. It can be so exciting to cheer for young performers, but a little patience helps everyone enjoy the music.
Bringing Younger Children: Student recitals are usually family-friendly, but being prepared is key. Sit near an exit if possible, so if your child gets restless, you can step outside easily. Coloring books or quiet toys can be helpful distractions for little ones, too.
3. Professional Performances: Sophisticated, Formal, and Magical
What to Wear: For symphony concerts, ballet, or opera, you have a great excuse to dress up! Evening performances often have a more formal vibe, so consider slacks, dresses, or even formal attire if you’re in the mood. For daytime performances, business casual is usually perfect.
When to Arrive: Plan to arrive at least 30 minutes early. Most venues won’t let you enter once the performance begins, and late seating is typically only allowed during specific breaks, if at all. Getting there early lets you relax and find your seat with ease.
Noise-Making Devices: In a quiet theater, even the softest chime can pull you out of the moment. Turn off your phone completely or silence all sounds and alarms. The performers and audience members will appreciate it!
When to Clap: In professional settings, wait until a full piece or movement has ended. This may mean sitting quietly for a while, but rest assured others will start clapping when it’s appropriate. And standing ovations? Save those for truly exceptional performances!
With Young Children: Professional performances are often best suited for older kids, but family-friendly shows can be a great introduction for younger ones. If you’re bringing children, explain the importance of staying quiet and seated, and pick an aisle seat for easy exits if needed.
Handling Etiquette Issues with Other Audience Members
Sometimes, you may notice someone nearby who isn’t quite in sync with the etiquette for a performance. Maybe they’re clapping at the wrong time, taking flash photos, or chatting a bit too loudly. It’s tricky to handle, but here are a few ways to address it kindly:
Friendly Reminders: A quick, friendly note is often all it takes. A simple, “They usually wait until the end to clap,” or, “Flash photos aren’t allowed here,” can help clear things up without creating tension.
Set an Example: Often, people are just unsure of the norms. If someone’s not sure when to clap or how quiet to be, modeling the behavior yourself can give them a gentle cue.
Get Help if Needed: In rare cases, someone might continue to disrupt the performance even after a reminder. If it’s affecting your experience, it’s okay to quietly let an usher or staff member know—they’re trained to handle these situations professionally.
Final Tips for Any Performance
Respect Personal Space: Regardless of the event, be mindful of those around you. Avoid standing in front of others if it obstructs their view, and keep any talking to a minimum during the performance.
Food and Drinks: If food is allowed, try to keep it quiet. Avoid crinkling wrappers or munching loudly, especially during softer sections. Save noisier snacks for intermission!
Photos and Videos: Always check the rules regarding recording or photographing a performance. Professional performances often prohibit both, while rock concerts may permit photos (without flash). Be considerate of others’ views if you’re taking photos.
A little etiquette goes a long way in making any live performance enjoyable for everyone. Whether you’re heading to a rock concert, a student recital, or taking in a professional orchestra, being mindful of your surroundings, showing respect to the performers, and helping others follow along will ensure everyone has an incredible experience. So dress for the occasion, turn off those devices, and enjoy the show!
Article written by Christina Gentzsch, co-owner and cello instructor at Dynamic Music Studios in Coralville, IA.